discover possibilities
An opportunity to design the life you want live and become the person you want to be.
Do you feel stuck in life
Like each day feels just like the one before, hoping tomorrow will bring something different or new?
Welcome. I’m Kevin
I can help you ...
Identify the roots of your struggle.
Heal the core wounds and traumas that present as stress, anxiety and depression.
Develop the tools that allow you to flourish and grow.
I Specialize in working with:
- Self-confidence / Self-esteem issues - Comparing yourself to others, never feeling "good enough"
- Identifying relationship / attachment patterns that are keeping you stuck and preventing you from getting your wants and needs met
- Creatives and Athletes who are struggling with a creative block or performance slump
- Rediscovering and expanding upon positive Flow States found through the joy of a creative outlet or physical activity
- Integrating the awareness gained from a psychedelic experience into daily life or preparing for an upcoming journey
- Adapting to the stress and change of caring for an aging parent(s)
THE DECISION TO SEEK THERAPY IS NOT EASY
It means we have to confront the truth that we are struggling in some facet of our life and need help in finding resolution. As a licensed marriage and family therapist, I help clients identify and heal the roots of their problem. Though there is no quick fix to healing, brain-based therapeutic modalities, which tap into the bodies innate ability to heal, appear to resolve emotional and physical distress more rapidly than traditional or “talk therapy”.
Brainspotting and EMDR are powerful and highly effective modalities in treating and relieving:
STRESS | ANXIETY | DEPRESSION | TRAUMA | RELATIONSHIP ISSUES | PERFORMANCE ENHANCEMENT
Therapy Provides a Safe Space to Look Inside Ourselves,
To Be Honest with Who We Are and What We Want
It is a space to heal deep wounds, identify what is holding you back from living a joyous life, and expanding upon the strengths you have, allowing you to flourish in both relationships and career. When we don’t live as our true selves, stress, anxiety and depression soon take hold. The pressure to maintain an appearance that everything is alright, but knowing on the inside that it is not can be debilitating. This not only negatively impacts our mental health, but our overall wellbeing.
OFFERING MENTAL HEALTH SERVICES TO CLIENTS IN
California Florida
BRAINSPOTTING
Brainspotting is a brain-based therapeutic approach to healing. Attuning to both the therapeutic relationship and the brain-body response of the client allows the therapist to provide a supportive framework for the client to tap into their “inner healing intelligence”, or the body’s ability to heal itself. Whether you are struggling with anxiety, depression, stress, or trauma, this gentle and flexible modality is a highly effective treatment to finding the peace and joy in life that you deserve. Many clients have experienced deep and rapid processing with this cutting-edge modality in comparison to traditional “talk therapy”.
EMDR THERAPY
There is more wisdom in your body than the deepest philosophy…
EMDR Therapy (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing), is a highly affective therapeutic modality for unblocking stuck memories that inhibit healing and growth. Often, our traumas are rooted in early childhood relationships that effect how we relate to ourselves and others. These attachment wounds result in core negative self beliefs, such as feeling unloveable, unsafe or not good enough to name a few.
PSYCHEDELIC INTEGRATION THERAPY
Psychedelic Medicines Can Open The Door To Healing.
It’s Up To You To Walk Through It.
What is Psychedelic Integration Therapy?
After a psychedelic journey, it can be difficult for many people to make sense of their experience, whether it be magical, healing, or one of confusion, and integrate it into their daily lives.
Psychedelic Integration Therapy is a critical piece of the healing journey that is far too often overlooked or ignored. Gaining awareness without moving it into action or change, is merely awareness that quickly submerges back into the subconscious mind. Without integrating the experience into one’s daily life, old habits will soon take hold, finding oneself dealing with the same unresolved issues. For this reason, many users find themselves participating in more psychedelic journeys than might be needed to ultimately heal unresolved issues and thrive in their lives.
Performance Enhancement
rediscover your FLOW STATE
Find the Love and Joy Again
What is Performance Enhancement?
Many athletes and creatives experience a slump or block at some point in their career. This can be scary, especially for professionals who rely on their talent or skill for their job. The worry and stress of not performing to your ability only feeds the negative self beliefs and exacerbates the problem. This often results in athletes struggling with the “Yips” or creatives experiencing performance anxiety or blocks losing the love for the profession that once brought them so much joy.
How do EMDR and Brainspotting work for creatives such as musicians, writers, actors, artists and athletes?
- Help identify and heal underlying cause of your distress
- Learn to regulate your nervous system, allowing you to operate in the state of coherence or harmony between your brain and body
- Tap into the times when you experienced flow, identifying the ingredients that not only contribute to the state but allow you return to it
PSYCHOTHERAPY
Psychotherapy, or talk-therapy, is what most people imagine when hearing the term therapy. Built upon trust and compassion, the relationship between therapist and client encourages the expression of innermost thoughts and feelings. Client’s are able to gain insight and awareness, allowing them to discover solutions to the issue(s) that is getting in the way of living a joyful life.
About Kevin
My approach to therapy draws upon my belief that individuals need to be viewed and treated holistically, addressing mental, physical and nutritional influences that impact overall wellbeing. Simply alleviating the negative symptoms is not enough. I want you to live an optimal and self-fulfilled life. A life where your strengths are both discovered and promoted, allowing for the seeds of happiness and wellbeing to take hold and grow.
TRUE HEALTH IS THE HARMONY
BETWEEN MENTAL, NUTRITIONAL AND PHYSICAL WELLBEING
Health and longevity can’t be bio-hacked through nutritional supplements, rigorous exercise or pills that appear to make your worries and problems melt away. The Blue Zone studies have identified the ingredients to living a long and healthy life.
Science has demonstrated the key to longevity and health lies in addressing three areas of wellbeing.
Mental – sense of belonging, community, supportive relationships
Nutritional – eating a balanced diet rooted in moderation and nutritionally dense foods
Physical – moving your body in a natural way
I CAN HELP YOU CREATE YOUR BLUE ZONE LIFESTYLE
- A sense of belonging - Find community and supportive relationships built upon shared interests or values.
- Develop a better relationship with food - Identify when you are hungry vs. emotional eating and how it impacts one's mental and physical wellbeing.
- Move your body in a natural way - Discover physical activities that bring you joy, setting the foundation for a longterm lifestyle change.
you deserve happiness
Connect
Please feel free to reach out with any questions regarding therapy with me. I will respond within 24 hours during weekdays.
OFFICE LOCATION:
California
13323 Washington Blvd. Suite 207
Los Angeles, CA 90066
P: +310 720-4822
E: kevin@kevinstolper.com
* Metered parking is readily available in the lot on Kinney St.
Florida
State of Florida via telehealth.
CONTACT INFO:
OFFICE POLICY:
Clients are asked to cancel no later than 24 hours prior to their scheduled appointment time. A no show or cancellation less than 24 hours will result in a charge of the full session fee.
SESSION FEE:
Sessions are 50-minutes long and range from $150-$225. Sliding scale spots are offered on a limited availability. Payment can be made in cash, credit card, check, or Zelle.
INSURANCE INFO:
I do not accept insurance but am happy to provide a “Superbill” in which you submit to your carrier for reimbursement.